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The
focus of Equine Assisted Psychotherapy (EAP) involves setting up
activities involving the horses, which will require the client or
family to apply certain skills. Non-verbal communication, assertiveness,
creative thinking and problem-solving, taking responsibility, emotional
control, confidence and attitude are several examples of the tools
utilized and developed by EAP.

Why
Horses?
Because
horses are large and powerful, which creates a natural opportunity
for some to overcome fear and develop confidence. Accomplishing
a task involving horses creates confidence and provides for wonderful
metaphors when dealing with other intimidating and challenging situations
in life.
Horses
are very much like humans in that they are social animals. They
have defined roles within their herds. They would rather be with
their peers. They have distinct personalities, attitudes and moods.
An approach that seems to work with one horse, does not necessarily
work with another. At times, they are stubborn and defiant. They
like to have fun. In other words, horses provide vast opportunities
for learning about our own world.
Horses
require work, whether in caring for them or working with them. In
a time when immediate gratification and the "easy way"
are the norm, horses require people to be engaged in physical and
mental work to be successful, a valuable characteristic in all aspects
of life.
Horses
have the ability to mirror exactly what human body language is telling
them. Many people will complain, "This horse is stubborn. The
horse doesn't like me," etc. But the lesson to be learned is
that if they change themselves, the horses will respond differently.
Horses are honest, which makes them especially powerful messengers.

Kids
find out that some of their behaviors don't work with a horse, because
it doesn't get the response they want. They learn new ways of coping,
because the horse gives them an immediate, honest response to what
they are doing. The kids begin to change things about themselves
to get the horse to do what they want. Then, we help them understand
that the same changes will work everywhere.
As
one kid put it best, "At school when I am doing my work, I
used to get so frustrated and give up. Now I just think about how
frustrated I was getting the horse to do an activity, and that I
didn't give up and it worked. I remember that at school and it helps
me to know I can do my schoolwork too."
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